Dr. A.M. Benjamin, Author

Dating advice for women: Keep your panties on!

We’re taught to chase the spark, but sparks fade fast. This book breaks down how to tell the difference between attraction and alignment—so you stop mistaking adrenaline for love. Learn to choose calm, consistency, and connection that actually lasts. This is a  practical guide to dating with clarity, confidence, and boundaries. 

Stop endless swiping

In The EQ of Dating, Dr. Benjamin guides you through the most powerful skill you’ll ever need in dating: emotional clarity. This isn’t about how to get someone to like you, it’s about how to stop losing yourself in emotionally unavailable dynamics and start building meaningful, secure relationships from the inside out. 

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The Five Love Languages helped millions name how they give and receive love. Dr. A.M. Benjamin reframes the classic five love languages into five EQ-driven connection styles. If you’ve ever given the “right” love language but still felt unseen, this book explains why.  

Perfect Gift for your College Grad!

Step into any high-pressure meeting or conflict-heavy conversation and imagine diffusing the tension with calm, empathy, and clarity. Imagine turning stress into strategy and friction into collaboration. This book shows you how to do that in just 30 days. 

Best Gift for Teens

If you're a parent, guardian or teen feeling overwhelmed by the vast world of personal finance, you're not alone. Many parents share your concerns, knowing that financial literacy isn't always a priority in schools, leaving teens vulnerable to costly mistakes. Give teens the tools for wealth, independence, and confidence with real-world money strategies. 

 📘 Gift this to the teen in your life today! 

How to Ask Smarter Questions

A concise, practical guide for professionals who want to stand out in meetings not by speaking more, but by asking better questions. Whether you’re in business or government, this guide shows you how to frame questions that spark insight, reveal blind spots, and drive real decisions.